How to help reduce anxiety with deep listening

How to help reduce anxiety with deep listening

For many of our clients we are noticing an increase in anxiety. Given the current uncertainty and the need for isolation in the world right now, this is not surprising.

This post is designed to give you some tools in deep listening to help manage your anxiety or support another who might be struggling with some overwhelming feelings.

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Online Counselling - How to Make it Work for You

Online Counselling - How to Make it Work for You

In response to COVID-19, many clients are finding themselves having to move to an online platform for their therapy appointments. For some, the idea of moving online can be a little challenging, especially if online counselling was not the forum that they had originally chosen to engage with their therapist.

This post is designed to take away some of that fear and to give you some tips as to how to make the online counselling experience really work for you.

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The Elderly and COVID-19

The Elderly and COVID-19

At the Grove, we are hearing from many of our clients that they are worried about their elderly parents and grandparents, especially those that live alone or in aged care facilities.

The mental health of elderly people was already an important issue before this crisis, but with the isolation and fear present right now, it is crucial that we find ways to connect.

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Reducing Anxiety during COVID-19

Reducing Anxiety during COVID-19

During this period of extreme uncertainty, create certainty through a structure of self-care. Know your resources and look after yourself.

We at The Grove are working with all of our clients, providing online counselling via video & telephone platforms. If you feel you or someone you know are in need of support, please reach out. Early intervention is the best intervention.

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Confrontation is hard … but it is the quality of the ‘repair process’ that really matters

Confrontation is hard … but it is the quality of the ‘repair process’ that really matters

Last night we had a bust up in our kitchen.  As I was putting a younger child to bed, I could hear our adolescent children arguing over whose turn it was to wash up.  

They are older now, the voices are louder and more powerful.  

Arguing can be both frightening and exhausting to be around.

For me, arguing triggers me back to my childhood.  

In my childhood experience, my father often argued, particularly when someone disagreed with him.

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How do you make space for intimacy?

How do you make space for intimacy?

Our being needs to feel intimacy to repair and grow.  Derived from the Latin intimare ‘impress, make familiar’, from intimus ‘inmost’, intimacy implies a place where we are truly prepared to be with and make known our innermost experiences. 

How do you make space for intimacy in your relationships?

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As the Year Unfolds, How are You Coping with Overwhelm & Anxiety?

As the Year Unfolds, How are You Coping with Overwhelm & Anxiety?

With the new year very much underway, this can be a time that we can experience overwhelm and anxiety, as we feel the jolt of our daily life routine, against the relaxed mode of the summer holidays just past.  

This short post is designed to give you the basic elements of grounding, as a first step to coming into present moment awareness.

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Start of the School Year - How to Help our Children with Anxiety?

Start of the School Year - How to Help our Children with Anxiety?

Starting and even going back to school can be big time for the little people in our lives.  Equally it can be a big time for us as their parents.

This article is designed to help you know how to support our children through this school transition.

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How you can make the most of therapy.

How you can make the most of therapy.

Opening the doors to 'therapy gold'...

Whether you are new to therapy or not, sometimes it can be hard to know how to get the best out of the therapy experience.  This article is designed to help make that path a little bit easier.  Here are some tips...

  1. Be on time ... in fact be EARLY
    • Have you noticed how your therapy hour can take a while to get into on those days that you are rushing?  
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